We Want What We Can't Have.

Listening to Beethoven as I'm reading articles on this. But I believe we all need this kind of help these days. Me and T had a long conversation about how we want those who push us away because they give us that drive to work for that possibility of having that something one day. Those actions just end up pushing the person away more.

Love is beautiful, i saw it on TV !!

So back to the lady who was shocked, The main reason she felt so bad is that she heard me saying that falling in love is a process that is controlled by the mind and that our brains are like giant computers that look for a matches based on our past experiences, belief systems, relationship with parents, unmet needs and the way we were raised. 

 Because you have been brainwashed to believe that love is the soloution to all problems you will face a horrible time getting over anyone you can't have. 

 Love is the soloution to all problems: If you have this belief then you are classified as a loveaddict who uses love to cope with life problems. This is no different then drug abuse or cocaine addiction. The soloution is to fix your life not to find a romantic partner.

 There is only one soul mate: As soon as the computer in your brain finds another match you willfall in love with him. Why do you think people who love each other cheat? simply because there are hundreds of potential partners out there and not just one

Fix my life?..